Books The Asshle Survival Guide: How to Deal with People Who Treat You Like Dirt Robert I. Sutton (Author,

"The Asshle Survival Guide: How to Deal with People Who Treat You Like Dirt" by Robert I. Sutton is a practical manual for recognizing and handling toxic, rude, or tyrannical people in your personal and professional life. Sutton starts by helping readers diagnose what kind of "asshle problem" they face, distinguishing between isolated incidents and chronic behavior patterns. The book outlines evidence-based strategies for coping, including removing yourself from the situation, avoiding unnecessary interactions, lessening their psychological power over you by changing your mindset, and—in extreme cases—going on the offensive without becoming toxic yourself. Sutton emphasizes the importance of preserving your sanity and well-being through psychological armor and practical action.