The book "Is Your Child's Confidence Drowning in a Sea of TikTok and Video Games?" addresses the challenges modern children face due to heavy screen time, gaming, and social media exposure. It highlights how these digital environments are designed to be addictive by using game-like reward systems that trigger brain chemicals like dopamine, making it harder for kids to disengage.
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Excessive screen time, especially with video games and social media, raises stress hormones and can adversely affect children's mental health, often correlating with increased anxiety and depression, particularly in girls.
Younger children should ideally have very limited or no screen time, as early exposure can harm developmental processes.
Violent video games, especially ones with realistic and immersive content, tend to increase aggressive behavior and negatively impact emotional regulation.
The unnatural light and electromagnetic fields from screens also pose physiological risks.
Practical parenting strategies recommended include strict screen time limits (e.g., 90 minutes per day), monitoring and controlling access via apps and passwords, no social media accounts before age 13, screen-free days, and banning violent games.
Encouraging outdoor play, unstructured boredom, and real-world social interactions is vital for children's confidence and healthy development.
The book strongly advocates for proactive, consistent parental control and engagement to counterbalance the allre and potential harm of digital media.