Books The Journal of Best Practices: A Memoir of Marriage, Asperger Syndrome, and One Man's Quest to Be a Better Husband  by David Finch (Author)

"The Journal of Best Practices: A Memoir of Marriage, Asperger Syndrome, and One Man's Quest to Be a Better Husband" by David Finch is a candid and humorous memoir that chronicles Finch's journey after his diagnosis with Asperger's Syndrome. Faced with the challenges Asperger's posed to his marriage and family life, Finch undertakes a rigorous process of self-improvement.

He compiles a "Journal of Best Practices" filled with strategies, reminders, and personal insights aimed at becoming a better husband and father. His notes include practical behavioral guidelines such as effective communication techniques, learning to listen, controlling temper, and understanding his family's needs. Finch uses humor to cope with his struggles, making the memoir engaging and relatable.

The book tracks the evolution of Finch’s relationship with his wife Kristen, from significant difficulties due to his undiagnosed condition to a strengthened bond built on empathy, patience, and mutual understanding. Finch also addresses his challenges with empathy and social interaction, highlighting that these traits can be nurtured with conscious effort.