Books The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdm of God  by Timothy Keller (Author), Kathy Keller (Contributor

"The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdm of God" by Timothy Keller, with contributions from Kathy Keller, is a biblically grounded exploration of marriage as a sacred covenant designed to reflect God's love. The book provides deep theological insights combined with practical wisdm for navigating the challenges and joys of married life.

Keller emphasizes that marriage is fundamentally about sacrificial love and selflessness, calling spouses to prioritize their partner's needs above their own, which is only possible through the empowering grace of the Holy Spirit. The book addresses common misconceptions such as the idea of finding a perfect soulmate, instead highlighting marriage as a journey where two imperfect people grow together spiritually and emotionally.

Core themes include the necessity of commitment, the significance of covenant over fleeting feelings, and the importance of spiritual friendship within marriage. Keller explains the biblical roles of husband and wife based on Ephesians 5, focusing on mutual respect, sacrificial love, and submission modeled after Christ’s love for the church.

Additional topics cover communication, dealing with conflict, understanding gender roles, singleness, and cultivating a healthy sexual relationship within the bounds of marriage. The Kellers present marriage as a transformative relationship that mirrors the gospel—offering both the pattern and the power to endure and flourish.