Books You're Not Enough (And That's Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love  by Allie Beth Stuckey (Author)

"You're Not Enough (And That's Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love" by Allie Beth Stuckey critiques the modern obsession with self-love as a flawed and potentially harmful cultural narrative. Stuckey, a Christian conservative commentator, argues that believing "you are enough" on your own promotes self-centeredness, entitlement, and ultimately dissatisfaction, as it neglects deeper spiritual truths.

The book identifies five myths of the self-love culture:

You are enough.

You determine your own truth.

You are perfect as you are.

You are entitled to your dreams.

You cannot love others until you love yourself.

Stuckey counters these beliefs by emphasizing the need to find identity, purpose, and wholeness through reliance on God rather than solely within oneself. She insists that self-forgetfulness and surrender to a higher power lead to true peace and fulfillment, challenging the prevailing focus on individualism and emotional self-sufficiency.

Through biblical insights and practical guidance, the book encourages readers, especially women, to escape the "toxic" cycle of self-obsession and embrace a more grounded, faith-based approach to life, relationships, and self-worth.