From novels to non-fiction, there has never been more interest in parenting. It seems that somehow, modern parenting has become about always putting your child's needs first, however inconsequential and no matter what the cost. The price we are paying as parents is losing our identity, forgetting about our partner's needs and putting them last on our list of priorities. This can lead to increased risk of marital breakdown and unhappy, insecure children with poor relationship role models. This practical self-help book is about putting your partner first, and not losing sight of your own needs when you become a parent. By focusing on your relationship and making your partner a priority, you will create a secure, caring environment in which to bring up your children. The result is a strong marriage, secure children and a happy family