Jumia Books Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ  by Daniel Goleman (Author)

"Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ" by Daniel Goleman is a foundational book that argues that emotional intelligence (EQ)—the ability to recognize, understand, manage, and influence emotions—is as critical, if not more so, than IQ for success in life and relationships.

Key insights include:

The brain consists of the rational neocortex (thinking brain) and the emotional limbic system, where emotions originate and can sometimes hijack rational thought.

Emotional intelligence is composed of five main components: self-awareness (recognizing one’s emotions), self-regulation (managing emotions), motivation (self-drive), empathy (recognizing others’ emotions), and social skills (managing relationships).

Emotional hijacking occurs when the amygdala triggers overwhelming emotions before rational processing, leading to impulsive reactions.

While IQ predicts academic success, EQ has greater influence on personal and professional achievements, wellbeing, and social functioning.

Emotional intelligence can be learned and developed through practice and education, starting from childhood.

Family environment and early experiences play a crucial role in developing emotional intelligence.

Emotional literacy—understanding and articulating emotions—is essential for mental health, relationships, and leadership.

Goleman highlights the importance of teaching emotional skills in schools to address issues like aggression, addiction, and social challenges.