Jumia Books STOP CHASING WOMEN START ATTRACTING THEM Desperation Doesn't Attract Desire

Let’s not sugarcoat this.

If you have to convince her to choose you, you’ve already lost.

If you’re constantly wondering what to say, how to impress her, or how to “act right” to win her heart…

You’re already beneath her radar. You're a whisper, not a presence.

You were told to be “consistent.” You were told to treat her like a queen.

But no one told you the truth — that women don’t respect men who chase.

They don't dream about the man who’s always available.

They crave the one they have to earn.

If you’ve ever found yourself replaying conversations in your head, wondering why she ghosted you after saying she “liked your vibe”…

If you’ve been her emotional support system for months, only to hear her say,

“You’re such a good friend…”

If you’ve spent energy trying to prove your worth to a woman who barely acknowledges yours — then this is your wake-up call.

Because this is not just an ebook.

It’s a full system reset for your mind, your habits, your identity.

You’ve been performing.

Every compliment.

Every “Good morning” text.

Every time you double-texted after being ignored.

Every time you bought her food “just to show her you care.”

You weren't being kind. You were submitting.

You were training her to see you as beneath her — as available, as soft, as unchallenging.

And she may thank you… but she’ll never desire you.

You see, attraction is not a result of performance.

It’s not built through effort, or words, or trying to “prove you’re different.”