Books HOW TO MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU Based on the psychology of falling in love BY WALTER J BOWER

"How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You: Based on the Psychology of Falling in Love" by Walter J. Bower explores love through the lens of psychology and neurochemistry. The book explains that love results from complex interactions between hormones like oxytocin, dopamine, and vasopressin, alongside partner preference, attachment, and sexual drive.

Key insights include:

Each person has a unique "love map," an unconscious set of traits they seek in an ideal partner.

By understanding and aligning with a person's love map—matching their subconscious desires and preferences—you can increase the likelihood they fall in love.

The book offers psychological strategies based on neuro-linguistic programming and ancient sciences to stimulate these feelings.

It emphasizes that love is not one-size-fits-all; different personalities require different approaches.

Techniques include catching attention, creating emotional push-pull dynamics, building trust, and maintaining relationship momentum.

Additional tips address overcoming common relationship challenges like boredom or loss of interest through activities like introducing new experiences and managing emotional openness.